A Life-Changing Getaway Awaits You
Feeling Trapped in “NOT ENOUGH”?
(...Love, time, energy, money, security…or something else?)
In ONE Weekend, this Retreat turns the Fear, Overwhelm, Anger, or Self-Doubt Created by your "Not-Enough" Scenarios into Dependable Peace, Connection, & Thriving
No matter how much growth work you’ve done, your survival-mind still filters life through a lens of negativity, scarcity, or powerlessness. But what if the very things you fear or resist are actually pointing you toward real peace and empowered action?
At the Prosperity via Self-Solidarity Waterfront Retreat at lovely Chesapeake Paradise near Washington, DC, you’ll discover—in just one powerful weekend—a simple yet profound system that unravels patterns of lack, fear, and self-abandonment.
In a beautiful, supportive setting, you’ll relax, reconnect, and step into a radical self-love breakthrough that rewires your relationships, mindset, career, and life—so you leave knowing exactly how to let life happen FOR you, instead of TO you.
Turn struggle into clarity, conflict into connection, and fear of scarcity into inner thriving.
PROSPERITY VIA SELF-SOLIDARITY WATERFRONT RETREAT
THURSDAY May 1st, 6:30 pm - SUNDAY, May 4th, 3:30 pm, 2025
At Chesapeake Paradise (47 minutes from DC, VA, or Baltimore)
Chesapeake Paradise is country-like micro-resort on 2 waterfront acres convenient to DC, VA, or Baltimore. Also a luxury 5-Star Airbnb when we're not doing retreats, it features breathtaking water views, starry skies, open spaces, shady lawns, beautifully appointed unique private rooms and common spaces, pier, kayaks/canoe, hot tub, swings, indoor gas fireplace, outdoor fire pits, screened porch, and the option to meet both indoors and outdoors for our sessions and delicious nourishing meals. With over 10 years of happy retreats, most retreaters come back for many more, because they know we blend cutting-edge coaching, fun, nature, warm hospitality, and amazing women to create an intimate, life-changing retreat experience where our guests feel nurtured, safe, seen, and supported while they're here.
You Were Made for More
You’re a Partner, a Leader, a Parent, a Healer—Whatever kind of Changemaker you are, you are ready for some real Change.
Because you’re tired of letting the your toxic thoughts eclipse your highest, happiest vision.
You have a vision. A calling. A deep desire to make an impact. But when it comes to fully stepping into it, something keeps holding you back.
Or maybe you're used to having a vision, but just DON'T RIGHT NOW!
Either way this retreat goes way beyond the beauty and relaxation we offer—it’s about rewiring the way you show up for yourself so you can bring your best gifts into the world with clarity, confidence, and ease.
At Chesapeake Paradise, you’ll immerse yourself in a deeply restorative, eye-opening, and fun experience that helps you release the survival-driven patterns keeping you stuck.
Using my simple, reliable LIVING IN SYMMETRY approach that engages two powerful tools (The Work of Byron Katie and my Wheel of Self-Forgiveness), we'll unravel painful stories, break free from old patterns, and step into real self-love—the kind that makes peace, joy, and thriving relationships feel natural, creating win-win outcomes at every turn.
a simple Way to Break Through. a whole new approach to life's challenges
You’re Doing Everything Right—So Why Does It Still Feel Like Something’s Missing?
You've been committed to growth and invested in your vision for a better world, as well as a healthy body and relationships. You’ve read the books, practiced mindfulness, gone to therapy, and worked hard on your relationships. You’ve poured yourself into personal and professional growth.
And yet—something still isn’t clicking. Or you think you've "got it down," then life escalates, bringing suffering or confusion.
No matter how much effort you put in, certain struggles keep showing up. Some patterns just won’t break. You’re still over-giving, second-guessing, or feeling stuck in cycles of guilt, resentment, or self-doubt--feeling like you're never doing enough--or getting enough back--in certain relationships or areas of functioning in your work or home life.
I see you—because I’ve been there. And so have the women who come to this retreat.
You’re not failing. There's just a "missing PEACE" most of us were never taught that makes all the difference.
In a world that often demands you to conform, lose yourself in a cause or in others' expectations, put others' needs first, or suppress your true desires, finding a path that truly aligns with your soul can feel daunting. If you're a woman with a vision, a purpose, and a longing to make a tangible impact, you know this struggle all too well.
Whether you're leading your effort to make it on your own after a breakup, an international non-profit, or a complex marriage/family situation or.... you've likely experienced patterns of self-sabotage, anxiety & overwhelm, decision fatigue, or the constant tug-of-war between your passionate aspirations, practical concerns, and personal commitments.
What if there was a way to synergize--even capitalize on--the challenging parts of your life?
But how? Even when you feel completely confident and powerful in some areas, underground beliefs can create patterns of self-sabotage in the relationships that matter most, making you play small, question yourself, feel victimized by others' fears/limits/behaviors, or put everyone else’s needs above your own.
The truth is, you’re still operating under the influence of deeply ingrained, survival-driven thinking that was programmed long ago—by caregivers, by society, by life circumstances where your brain adapted just to get through.
This "Prosperity via Self-Solidarity Late Spring Waterfront Retreat" is where everything changes. You begin to see through those blind spots, so you can stay true to your highest, happiest vision for yourself, your family, your organization, or this planet.
This isn’t about surface-level self-care. It isn't about affirming over what angers or scares you with positivity. It's about harnessing what hurts as your direct and personalized path to peace, healing, clarity, and empowered action. It’s about rewiring the way you engage with yourself, your relationships, and your life—so you don’t just cope, you thrive.
You don’t need another escape—you need a BREAKTHROUGH. This is your moment.
Unravel Survival-Driven Thinking
Break Free from Self-Sabotage
You’ll learn how to spot, question, and transform the thoughts that have kept you stuck in unproductive reactions or relationship struggles--so internal and external dramas will no longer drain your energy or divert your focus from your most meaningful contributions.
Reclaim the Parts of You That Got Lost
Heal the Disconnect Within You
No more abandoning yourself to accommodate others’ needs, fears, or limits. This retreat gives you the tools to reclaim to trust your vision and your worth, reclaim your boundaries and your life. and release others to their unique path while showing up fully and unapologetically for your own!
Break Free & Step Into Self-Solidarity
Thriving is an Inside Job. Learn to Stand With, By & For Yourself,
This retreat will help you create a deep, unshakable connection with yourself—so you no longer depend on others to give you the peace, confidence, and love you crave. This sweet state of self-love I call Self-Solidarity ends resentment. regret. and self-criticism, creating clarity, confidence, & win-win solutions.
This is not just a retreat—it’s a very real reset
What You’ll Experience & Learn at the Retreat
In an environment that many have called the safest they've ever experienced, you’ll get exponential shifts as you witness real-time facilitations with others, while also doing your own deep inquiry. You'll be guided in a structure that lets you offer meaningful support (for those who want it) without advice-giving or needing to "fix things" for others.
Each day, we’ll go deeply--using a simple self-evolution system that is infused with humor and fresh insight--into thoughts and patterns that have been running our lives, using powerful tools like The Work of Byron Katie and my Wheel of Self-Forgiveness to turn around your most challenging situations. You'll learn these life-altering tools (or increase your mastery if you already know them), try them out via a fun, empowering partner practice, and experience firsthand how quickly a mental shift can bring real peace and unconditional connection.
And you won’t just leave with insights—you’ll leave lighter, clearer, and truly transformed, with a way of living that lets you harness what hurts as your path to clarity and thriving. Along the way, you’ll soak up the beauty of Chesapeake Paradise, enjoy delicious, nourishing meals, and create lifelong connections with women who truly understand your journey.
EVENING 1: Arrive, Exhale, and Set Your Intentions
Exhale the Overwhelm, Inhale the Possibility of a New You
Because clarity comes when you stop managing everything and start listening to yourself.
The first step to real transformation? Making space for it. The moment you step onto this sacred waterfront, you’ll feel your body exhale. In this opening session, we’ll start by clearing the mental clutter, setting intentions, and getting real about what’s been holding you back. You’ll begin the process of unraveling old thought patterns, and by the end of the night, you’ll feel more present, open, and at ease.
After this evening, you'll know...That you are not alone—your struggles, your triggers, and your fears are shared and understood.
DAY 2: The Root of Your Emotional Pain & The Path to Freedom
Undoing the Old Story: The Path to Emotional Freedom
Because you can’t change what you don’t see—awareness is the first step to freedom.
Most of us don’t realize that our deepest struggles are rooted in thoughts we don’t even question. Today, you’ll get hands-on experience shifting your most persistent pain points using The Work of Byron Katie and The Wheel of Self-Forgiveness. You’ll leave knowing exactly how to stop being your own worst critic and become your greatest ally instead.
At the end of this day, you'll know...How to identify the exact thought that is keeping you stuck.
Day 3: Rewiring Relationships & Reclaiming Your Energy
The Power to Shift Any Relationship Starts With You
Because real freedom isn’t about fixing others—it’s about standing with, by, and for yourself—no matter what.
You’re here because you want deeper, more fulfilling relationships—but also because you’re tired of trying so hard. Today, you’ll learn how to shift the way you relate to others in a way that feels effortless, aligned, and deeply nourishing. You’ll leave feeling clear, confident, and free from the weight of needing others to be different.
After today, you'll know...A reliable way to turn emotional triggers into a roadmap for inner peace.
Day 4: The Beginning of a New You
From Retreat to Real Life: Carrying Your Transformation Forward
Because real change isn’t about what happens at the retreat—it’s about how you live it after.
You didn’t come here for a temporary shift—you came for lasting change. That’s why today is focused on creating a solid foundation for integrating everything you’ve learned. You’ll gain clear strategies for applying your breakthroughs to everyday situations, ensuring that the clarity and self-solidarity you’ve built don’t fade, but deepen over time.
After this weekend, you'll know... How to keep this momentum going—so this weekend marks a true turning point in your life.
Real Transformations, Lasting Impact
Most participants return multiple times—Some to every retreat we offer! Here’s what they have to say:
Break Free and Transform Your Life
A Retreat That Changed Everything
Minutes into hearing Shawn speak, I knew I had to work with her. The Self-Love Breakthrough Retreat helped me break old patterns, gain clarity, and transform my relationships and career. I only wish I had found it sooner. If you’re on the fence, don’t wait—this retreat is life-changing!
Find Clarity, Strength, and Self-Love
From Stuck to Empowered
I came to the retreat feeling stuck, but I left with clarity, support, and tools to move forward. The experience was healing, empowering, and full of amazing women. If you’re hesitating, don’t—this retreat gives you exactly what you need to grow, in a space where everything is taken care of for you.
Healing, Growth, and Transformation Await
A Life-Changing Experience Beyond Expectations
I came to this retreat thinking some wounds could never heal—but I was wrong. Through deep support, accountability, and radical transformation, I gained clarity, peace, and self-love. If you're wondering if it's worth it, the answer is yes—every penny, every minute. It felt like finding the family I never knew I had.
AND HEY, THERE'S MORE!
Some of the uniquely incredible Accommodations
at Chesapeake Paradise
You'll be shown all choices on the accommodations page after you register...
or CLICK HERE to go there now and take a peek or grab yours (and then register...either order is OK)!
Luxury, Serenity, and Stunning Waterfront Views
Sunrise Suite: A Dreamy Waterfront Escape
The best suite in Chesapeake House, the Sunrise Suite offers spectacular water views, luxurious comfort, and the perfect space for relaxation and self-nurturing. With a spa-like bath, private balcony, and cozy fireplace, it’s designed for deep rest and renewal. A retreat favorite—reserve it before it’s gone!
Bright, Airy & Perfect for Relaxation
The Solarium: A Peaceful Retreat Favorite
With windows on three sides, the Solarium Bedroom offers breathtaking sunrise, sunset, and water views. This bright, peaceful space features a cozy double bed, a white leather couch, and a private balcony—perfect for reflection and relaxation. A retreat favorite, this tranquil hideaway fills fast—reserve it now!
Spacious, Private & Perfect for Reflection
The Flat: A Spacious, Tranquil Escape
A modern, open studio loft, The Flat offers creek-view skylights, a luxurious marble bath, and a well-appointed kitchen. With a queen bed, leather couch, and dedicated workspaces, it’s ideal for relaxation, reflection, and renewal. A top retreat choice—reserve it before it’s gone!
Wake Up to Peaceful Water Views
Waterfront Front Bedroom in The Cottage
This charming waterfront bedroom in The Cottage offers peaceful water views and a cozy retreat setting. Nestled in a spacious three-bedroom home, it provides easy access to kayaks, a pier, fire pit, and lush green space—perfect for relaxation and renewal. A favorite for retreat guests, this tranquil escape fills quickly—reserve it now!
Each retreat has its own energy—just right for those who attend
Enjoy a Highlights Video from One of our Many Happy Retreats!
"Feeling better is simpler than you think.
Your contributions are too important to keep draining, distracting, and diverting your focus from your highest, happiest vision for yourself, your family, your organization, or this planet. "
SHAWN MAHSHIE
A Safe Space for Healing & Renewal
Meet Your Host: Leading Retreats That Inspire Lasting Change
I’m Shawn Mahshie, host of many self-love breakthrough and relationship relief retreats, and owner of Chesapeake Paradise, a 5-star, 2-acre waterfront micro-resort designed for deep healing and renewal. This is my 19th retreat, and each one has been a powerful space for transformation.
My journey began with my own breakthrough—I once felt stuck in self-doubt, burnout, and relationship issues, abandoning myself with anxiety and self-criticism, until I discovered HOW to access simple mindset shifts that changed everything. Now, I help others harness whatever hurts or scares them to break free from self-sabotage, limiting beliefs, and relationship struggles to find true peace and clarity.
At Chesapeake Paradise, we blend cutting-edge coaching, fun, nature, warm hospitality, and amazing women to create a retreat experience where guests feel nurtured, supported, and deeply seen. With breathtaking water views, cozy accommodations, nourishing meals, and a community of like-minded people, this is more than a retreat—it’s an invitation to step into a new way of living. I can’t wait to welcome you!
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Join our Prosperity via Self-Solidarity Waterfront Retreat at Chesapeake Paradise and give yourself the gift of time away for rest, rejuvenation, and real transformation. First you'll register, then you're directed to the accommodations page.
Early Registration PRICE: March 2-April 5
Space is Limited. Registration opens SUNDAY, March 2, 6:00 pm ET. Grab your Spot!
$375 plus
early PRICE with both REGIsTRATION And Meals/Accommodations Averages Between $549-$825 usd
(TEXT or call 301-785-0545 IF YOU HAVE QUESTIONS OR WISh TO PAY IN 2 INSTALLMENTS)
Just-In-TIME PRICE: April 6-26
This Retreat sells out. BUT... if space allows, you can still register after SATURDAY, April 5, 11:59 pm ET for:
$475 plus
Just-in-Time Price with both Registration and Meals/ACCOMMODATIONS Averages Between $649-$925 usd
(TEXT or call 301-785-0545 IF YOU HAVE QUESTIONS OR WISh TO PAY IN 2 INSTALLMENTS)
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