A Life-Changing Getaway Awaits You
From Inner Critic to Inner Compass… to Inner Calm
PROSPERITY VIA SELF-SOLIDARITY WATERFRONT RETREAT
SPRING 2025 IS NOW SOLD OUT!!!! JOIN THE WAITLIST FOR THE NEXT RETREAT OCT 30-NOV 2 (TENTATIVELY).
Please email support@shawnmahshie.com to be added to the waitlist for the Fall Retreat
THURSDAY OCT 30TH, 6:30 pm - SUNDAY, NOV 2nd, 3:30 pm, 2025
At Chesapeake Paradise (47 minutes from DC, VA, or Baltimore)
Chesapeake Paradise is a 5-star waterfront micro-resort just outside DC, offering stunning views, shady lawns, starry skies, and both indoor and outdoor spaces for connection, rest, and deep transformation. From luxury accommodations to kayaks, hot tub, fire pits, and nourishing meals, every detail supports your reset. With over a decade of life-changing retreats, guests return again and again for the powerful blend of coaching, nature, sisterhood, and soul-level peace.
You’re a Changemaker, a Partner, a Leader, a Parent, a Healer—It’s Time to Stop Holding Yourself Back
Because you’re tired of letting the inner tug-of-war eclipse your vision.
You have a vision. A calling. A deep desire to make an impact. But when it comes to fully stepping into it, something keeps holding you back. This retreat isn’t just about relaxation—it’s about rewiring the way you show up for yourself so you can bring your work into the world with clarity, confidence, and ease.
At Chesapeake Paradise, a 5-star 2-acre waterfront micro-resort just 45 minutes from DC and Baltimore, you’ll immerse yourself in a deeply restorative, eye-opening, and fun experience that helps you release the survival-driven patterns keeping you stuck.
Using my simple, reliable LIVING IN SYMMETRY approach that engages two powerful tools (The Work of Byron Katie and my Wheel of Self-Forgiveness), we'll unravel painful stories, break free from old patterns, and step into real self-love—the kind that makes peace, joy, and thriving relationships feel natural, creating win-win outcomes at every turn.
a simple Way to Break Through. a whole new approach to life's challenges
You’re Doing Everything Right—So Why Does It Still Feel Like Something’s Missing?
You’ve been committed to growth—personally, professionally, and spiritually. You’ve read the books, gone to therapy, practiced mindfulness, worked hard on your relationships.
And yet... something still isn’t clicking. Or maybe it works—until life escalates again.
Patterns keep showing up: over-giving, second-guessing, guilt, resentment, burnout. You’re doing so much, yet it never feels like enough.
I see you—because I’ve been there. So have the women who come to this retreat.
You’re not failing. You’re missing a piece—a “missing peace” most of us were never taught.
In a world that asks you to contort, conform, and give yourself away, staying true to your vision feels like a constant tug-of-war between passion, practicality, and people-pleasing.
Even the most powerful women can find themselves stuck in self-doubt, decision fatigue, or relationship dynamics that drain them.
But what if the most painful parts of your life held the key?
What if you could use your inner critic, anxiety, or regret to find your way back to clarity, confidence, and thriving relationships?
The truth is: you’re still operating under the influence of deeply ingrained, survival-driven thinking that was programmed long ago—by caregivers, by society, by life circumstances where your brain adapted just to get through.
At the Prosperity via Self-Solidarity Retreat at Chesapeake Paradise, you’ll learn to see through the blind spots keeping you stuck—so you can lead, love, and live from a place that’s truly your own.
This isn’t about surface-level self-care. It’s not about pretending you’re fine. It’s about harnessing what hurts and turning it into your direct path to peace, power, and purpose.
You don’t need another escape.
You need a breakthrough. This is your moment.
Unravel Survival-Driven Thinking
Break Free from Self-Sabotage
You’ll learn how to spot, question, and transform the thoughts that have kept you stuck in unproductive reactions or relationship struggles--so internal and external dramas will no longer drain your energy or divert your focus from your most meaningful contributions.
Reclaim the Parts of You That Got Lost
Heal the Disconnect Within You
No more abandoning yourself to accommodate others’ needs, fears, or limits. This retreat gives you the tools to reclaim to trust your vision and your worth, reclaim your boundaries and your life. and release others to their unique path while showing up fully and unapologetically for your own!
Break Free & Step Into Self-Solidarity
Thriving is an Inside Job. Learn to Stand With, By & For Yourself,
This retreat will help you create a deep, unshakable connection with yourself—so you no longer depend on others to give you the peace, confidence, and love you crave. This sweet state of self-love I call Self-Solidarity ends resentment. regret. and self-criticism, creating clarity, confidence, & win-win solutions.
This is not just a retreat—it’s a very real reset
What You’ll Experience & Learn at the Retreat
In what many call the safest space they’ve ever experienced, you’ll witness real-time breakthroughs, do your own deep inquiry, and learn how to offer support without fixing or advice-giving.
Each day, we’ll dive into the thoughts and patterns running your life, using The Work of Byron Katie and my Wheel of Self-Forgiveness to shift pain into peace. Through partner practice, humor, and fresh insight, you’ll gain real mastery in a system that creates immediate relief and lasting change.
You won’t just leave with insight—you’ll leave lighter, clearer, and truly transformed. All while soaking up the beauty of Chesapeake Paradise, nourishing meals, and soul-level sisterhood.
EVENING 1: Arrive, Exhale, and Set Your Intentions
Exhale the Overwhelm, Inhale the Possibility of a New You
Because clarity comes when you stop managing everything and start listening to yourself.
The first step to real transformation? Making space for it. The moment you step onto this sacred waterfront, you’ll feel your body exhale. In this opening session, we’ll start by clearing the mental clutter, setting intentions, and getting real about what’s been holding you back. You’ll begin the process of unraveling old thought patterns, and by the end of the night, you’ll feel more present, open, and at ease.
After this evening, you'll know...That you are not alone—your struggles, your triggers, and your fears are shared and understood.
DAY 2: The Root of Your Emotional Pain & The Path to Freedom
Undoing the Old Story: The Path to Emotional Freedom
Because you can’t change what you don’t see—awareness is the first step to freedom.
Most of us don’t realize that our deepest struggles are rooted in thoughts we don’t even question. Today, you’ll get hands-on experience shifting your most persistent pain points using The Work of Byron Katie and The Wheel of Self-Forgiveness. You’ll leave knowing exactly how to stop being your own worst critic and become your greatest ally instead.
At the end of this day, you'll know...How to identify the exact thought that is keeping you stuck.
Day 3: Rewiring Relationships & Reclaiming Your Energy
The Power to Shift Any Relationship Starts With You
Because real freedom isn’t about fixing others—it’s about standing with, by, and for yourself—no matter what.
You’re here because you want deeper, more fulfilling relationships—but also because you’re tired of trying so hard. Today, you’ll learn how to shift the way you relate to others in a way that feels effortless, aligned, and deeply nourishing. You’ll leave feeling clear, confident, and free from the weight of needing others to be different.
After today, you'll know...A reliable way to turn emotional triggers into a roadmap for inner peace.
Day 4: The Beginning of a New You
From Retreat to Real Life: Carrying Your Transformation Forward
Because real change isn’t about what happens at the retreat—it’s about how you live it after.
You didn’t come here for a temporary shift—you came for lasting change. That’s why today is focused on creating a solid foundation for integrating everything you’ve learned. You’ll gain clear strategies for applying your breakthroughs to everyday situations, ensuring that the clarity and self-solidarity you’ve built don’t fade, but deepen over time.
After this weekend, you'll know... How to keep this momentum going—so this weekend marks a true turning point in your life.
Real Transformations, Lasting Impact
Most participants return multiple times—Some to every retreat we offer! Here’s what they have to say:
Break Free and Transform Your Life
A Retreat That Changed Everything
Minutes into hearing Shawn speak, I knew I had to work with her. The Self-Love Breakthrough Retreat helped me break old patterns, gain clarity, and transform my relationships and career. I only wish I had found it sooner. If you’re on the fence, don’t wait—this retreat is life-changing!
Find Clarity, Strength, and Self-Love
From Stuck to Empowered
I came to the retreat feeling stuck, but I left with clarity, support, and tools to move forward. The experience was healing, empowering, and full of amazing women. If you’re hesitating, don’t—this retreat gives you exactly what you need to grow, in a space where everything is taken care of for you.
Healing, Growth, and Transformation Await
A Life-Changing Experience Beyond Expectations
I came to this retreat thinking some wounds could never heal—but I was wrong. Through deep support, accountability, and radical transformation, I gained clarity, peace, and self-love. If you're wondering if it's worth it, the answer is yes—every penny, every minute. It felt like finding the family I never knew I had.
AND HEY, THERE'S MORE!
Some of the uniquely incredible Accommodations
at Chesapeake Paradise
You'll be shown all choices on the accommodations page after you register...
or CLICK HERE to go there now and take a peek or grab yours (and then register...either order is OK)!
Luxury, Serenity, and Stunning Waterfront Views
Sunrise Suite: A Dreamy Waterfront Escape
The best suite in Chesapeake House, the Sunrise Suite offers spectacular water views, luxurious comfort, and the perfect space for relaxation and self-nurturing. With a spa-like bath, private balcony, and cozy fireplace, it’s designed for deep rest and renewal. A retreat favorite—reserve it before it’s gone!
Bright, Airy & Perfect for Relaxation
The Solarium: A Peaceful Retreat Favorite
With windows on three sides, the Solarium Bedroom offers breathtaking sunrise, sunset, and water views. This bright, peaceful space features a cozy double bed, a white leather couch, and a private balcony—perfect for reflection and relaxation. A retreat favorite, this tranquil hideaway fills fast—reserve it now!
Spacious, Private & Perfect for Reflection
The Flat: A Spacious, Tranquil Escape
A modern, open studio loft, The Flat offers creek-view skylights, a luxurious marble bath, and a well-appointed kitchen. With a queen bed, leather couch, and dedicated workspaces, it’s ideal for relaxation, reflection, and renewal. A top retreat choice—reserve it before it’s gone!
Wake Up to Peaceful Water Views
Waterfront Front Bedroom in The Cottage
This charming waterfront bedroom in The Cottage offers peaceful water views and a cozy retreat setting. Nestled in a spacious three-bedroom home, it provides easy access to kayaks, a pier, fire pit, and lush green space—perfect for relaxation and renewal. A favorite for retreat guests, this tranquil escape fills quickly—reserve it now!
Each retreat has its own energy—just right for those who attend
Enjoy a Highlights Video from One of our Many Happy Retreats!
"Feeling better is simpler than you think.
Your contributions are too important to keep draining, distracting, and diverting your focus from your highest, happiest vision for yourself, your family, your organization, or this planet. "
SHAWN MAHSHIE
A Safe Space for Healing & Renewal
Meet Your Host: Leading Retreats That Inspire Lasting Change
I’m Shawn Mahshie, host of many self-love breakthrough and relationship relief retreats, and owner of Chesapeake Paradise, a 5-star, 2-acre waterfront micro-resort designed for deep healing and renewal. This is my 19th retreat, and each one has been a powerful space for transformation.
My journey began with my own breakthrough—I once felt stuck in self-doubt, burnout, and relationship issues, abandoning myself with anxiety and self-criticism, until I discovered HOW to access simple mindset shifts that changed everything. Now, I help others harness whatever hurts or scares them to break free from self-sabotage, limiting beliefs, and relationship struggles to find true peace and clarity.
At Chesapeake Paradise, we blend cutting-edge coaching, fun, nature, warm hospitality, and amazing women to create a retreat experience where guests feel nurtured, supported, and deeply seen. With breathtaking water views, cozy accommodations, nourishing meals, and a community of like-minded people, this is more than a retreat—it’s an invitation to step into a new way of living. I can’t wait to welcome you!
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This is it—the moment to choose yourself, your growth, and the transformation waiting for you. The Prosperity via Self-Solidarity Breakthrough Retreat is filling fast—don’t miss your chance to be part of this life-changing experience.
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In order to get a full refund, participants need to stay for the entire retreat and participate in at least 3/4 of the exercises. If they feel they have not had a shift in perspective on their troubling issues at that time, we invite them to get on a coaching call to support that shift, or to communicate any issues where the retreat did not live up to their expectations. After that conversation, we will negotiate a % refund based on that feedback, including 100% refund if they are still not happy any aspect of the retreat or supplemental coaching.